Dating a cutter
Who knows what the monkeys have beneath that layer of frosting?
So, for all you monkey-cupcake people out there, hang in there.
However, Hendricksen also wrote that the four main reasons are: There is a misconception that people who self-harm are suicidal and/or "want to die." In fact, by definition, self-harm is the act of "intentionally and repeatedly harm[ing ones self]…
in a way that is impulsive and not intended to be lethal," according to Mental Health America.
But cutting — and self-harm in general — isn't about the death. Rachael told The Hope Line that for her, cutting was "an escape from reality. [was] a relief to escape the pain."And Mental Health America, a nonprofit organization dedicated to addressing the needs of those living with mental illness, agrees: "People who self-injure commonly report they feel empty inside, over or under stimulated, unable to express their feelings, lonely, not understood by others and fearful of intimate relationships and adult responsibilities.
It isn't about pain, and it isn't about the injury. Self-injury is their way to cope with or relieve painful or hard-to-express feelings…
Cookie-cutter people have their own world and stay focused on daily life.
Their stresses include grocery shopping, family reunions, the finale of X-Factor, making ends meet, puppy training, and taxes.
MHA notes that "the relationship between suicide and self-injury is complicated. But how do you support someone who is cutting — really support them?Cutting entails making small cuts on body parts such as the wrists, arms, legs, stomach, and chest.People who cut themselves usually try to conceal their wounds, thereby cutting in places easily covered by clothing.Somehow, it made me feel less crazy and less alone.Of course, this probably makes little to no sense, especially to someone who has never battled with mental illness or has never self-harmed. It is about breathing, and it is about taking control and feeling alive — and many reformed cutters echo similar sentiments.