Dating someone who is a quadrepelegic
I like things done a certain way, at certain times, and, frankly when I want to do them.
Well, the time finally arrived this Christmas where I had to make a decision.
With that said, when you are working with a caregiver you can teach them how you like to do things in a very specific way, time, and on your schedule.
Leaving my super “SCI” mom, as I call her, out of the equation for a moment because she would do and does absolutely everything for me — anyone else offering to help take care of you whether that be a friend, boyfriend, or family member who does not get paid to help you, but rather helps you out of love, well, the dynamic is completely different.
We want to spend our lives together and he has been so gentle in pushing me forward to help me understand that he loves me, all of me, and all that that entails.
He has shown me such kindness and love, which I did not think existed.