Men dating much older women
Certain rabbis have suggested that men date women one or two years older than them, although the men he’s advising are basically all in their very early 20’s.Although I agree with the premise that men should not disqualify women solely based on age, I disagree with the idea of “challenging” or forcing them to do so. You can’t force a man (or anyone) to date someone he doesn’t want to, even if his reasons are messed up.
If she’s dating an older man, there’s probably a reason, and the best you can do in this situation is make the most of what you have and who you are.
This is a strength that the younger woman admires and aspires to. No better place to start than with your voice and mind. You don’t have to be a daredevil stunt driver or extreme sports junkie to pick up some interesting experiences along the way. It may be people you’ve met, places you’ve been on holiday, or anything else that stands out from the normal array of day-to-day activities.
Sharing these things with the younger woman you have your eye upon will fascinate her, scintillate her, and keep her coming back for more–especially when her male peers struggle to find anything to talk about beyond frat parties and MTV.
Younger women are less demanding and have less expectations. Younger women are less jaded by the dating process.
Everyone—older men, younger men, older women, younger women—will reap the paradigm-shifting benefits.
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[Read: 10 spontaneous romantic moves men should try on a date] #4 DO take an interest in her.