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Well, then there was a delay, so I had to cancel the hotel.
That happened multiple times over those two years — there were plans for him to get here, and then he couldn’t. Having my own company, too, I realized that sometimes, you don’t get paid until you finish the job.
He had started an internet company, and I was thrown into running it, in addition to my own job as a treasurer for one of the local schools.
He was in between Malaysia, Hong Kong, Kuala Lumpur — the hardwood trees were there and they were being shipped to India. So he set me up on a Yahoo chat, and we would talk for hours at a time.
Looking back on it now, I’d love to be a fly on the wall to know how he did that. It just drew me into their family, and brought him into mine. He had a friend who was an engineer, and he was having trouble getting onto the [dating] website, and he asked if I’d mind sending a check into the company so he could start the dating process. The next time he asked was because he was getting paid, but the money was coming here to the states, and he needed to have a power of attorney for the banks over in London.
I used his sister’s conversations to find out more about him, and then I would ask him about her, because she lost a husband too, and I wanted to get to know her. It was extraordinary — I’d have these conversations with his sister and her son, and there was a difference in the way the son spoke, and the way the aunt spoke, which made sense. And I was like, “Well, sure, the more men, the merrier! When he asked me to help him out with it, I thought, What did he tell you those other early sums of money were for?
There was just a different way they felt about my situation, because they’d been through it. He contacted me through the dating site a few times, and then he said, “Look, I’m traveling.” He was in Houston, and he had just gotten a big contract in Malaysia. I called the company he said he was a contractor for, and they didn’t know who he was.
But again, I wasn’t anticipating anyone not telling me the truth, so I just figured, well, he’s an international contractor, maybe they don’t have those guys listed on the company roster. I felt like I understood what he was doing, because at the time, I had investments in trees in Costa Rica. So for me, that was kind of a sign, that this gentleman works in a business I have an investment in.