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Maybe the problem is not the people who date and date some more—they might even get married, if Rosenfeld is right—but those who are so daunted that they don’t make it off the couch.
This idea came up many times in my conversations with people who described sex and dating lives that had gone into a deep freeze.
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“Getting right-swiped is a good ego boost even if I have no intention of meeting someone,” one man told me.
I don’t try very hard.” Yet another woman said that she used an app, but only “after two glasses of white wine—then I promptly delete it after two hours of fruitless swiping.”Many critiques of online dating, including a 2013 article by Dan Slater in The Atlantic, adapted from his book A Million First Dates, have focused on the idea that too many options can lead to “choice overload,” which in turn leads to dissatisfaction.
Online daters, he argued, might be tempted to keep going back for experiences with new people; commitment and marriage might suffer.
She found him attractive and wanted to register her interest, but wasn’t sure how to do that outside the context of a college party.
Then she remembered that she’d seen his profile on Tinder.