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’s.” No wonder genetics cause 50% of the divorce rate– this figure represents the many divorces caused by the pairing of persons with extremely different temperaments who have no clue about how the other really experiences life. As with my first book, this one looks carefully at the effect of culture on HSPs–how it makes an HSP feel less desirable, less confident. As many men as women are born sensitive, but the stereotype is that women are sensitive, “real” men are not.Women love to be friends with male HSPs, but want to date and marry non-HSPs.Although this sounds like the opposite of being sensitive, nature planned it otherwise.Different genes and brain systems seem to govern the two traits, so that HSPs can also be SSs. An HSP with very little of this trait, in a relationship with a non-HSP/SS will certainly have a conflict-filled if exciting relationship.Third, for over thirty years I’ve been an HSP married to a non-HSP–some of it pretty stormy–so I have considerable experience with how temperament impacts a relationship!The Truth About The “Divorce Gene” Most of us assume that the success of a relationship between friends or lovers depends on having good communication skills or sharing similar interests.But consider this: A 1995 study found that 50 percent of the risk of divorce is genetically determined.
You won’t find that blend or those new results anywhere else.Indeed, in that field we are considered preeminent leaders, although neither of us has ever written on the topic for the public.This book will teach you quite a bit about what’s been uncovered by solid research about relationships.One goal of is to help HSP women realize their mistake and HSP men to feel less to blame for their situation.Another goal is to explore the different ways that HSPs and sensation seekers approach intimacy.