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In fact, many people that I speak to complain of ‘online dating fatigue’.
They complain that they have met a wide variety of people yet haven’t found “the one” or “that spark” .
Of course, there are disadvantages to online dating as well. Unlike blind dates that friends set up for you, you probably won’t have references for the people you meet online.
You are judged very harshly on a date with someone you have met online, you just aren’t fully aware of it. Do you have a difficult ex or young children that might curb a free lifestyle? I have spoken to many people who date online and many tell me that they have been on more than 40 dates and they are still looking. People get stuck into online dating for a whole host of reasons. Then again they may just be looking for an ego boost.
When you meet someone through an online dating site, you have a checklist in your mind as if pre-ordering something off Amazon. When we meet someone through work or through a friend, our expectations aren’t there as we don’t see this person as a potential partner.
We forget about the person and look at potential dates as a commodity. We are able to get to know someone without all the pressure of deciding within the first date whether our date is worth investigating more.
I met a lovely man but he had been doing the online dating thing a lot longer and the restless fickleness had taken hold of him.
He was indecisive and wasn’t sure as there were ‘so many other potential women’ for him. I remember becoming the same, the restless online dating ‘bug’ got to me too and I was ignoring some men on account of their star sign!
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They are comparing you to their imaginary check list. It’s quite addictive when you see people ‘liking’ your profile and writing to you. But the dating trenches are not to be sniffed at…it can feel like a war when you have been doing it for a while.